In this reflective episode, I’m talking about failure, or more specifically, whether we are sometimes too quick to call something a failure before we have actually understood what it came to teach us.
After a recent experience where the outcome was not what I had hoped for, I found myself thinking deeply about labels, judgement, shame and the way we respond when things feel messy.
I explore the difference between failure, error, mistake and unintended outcome, and how each word changes the way we think, feel and act. For leaders, this matters.
The language we use can either shut learning down or open up curiosity, reflection and better decision making. Sometimes the uncomfortable bit is exactly where the most useful insight is hiding.
Highlights:
(01:10) – Why a recent unintended outcome sparked this reflection
(02:18) – How pressure can distort our thinking patterns
(03:43) – Why the word failure can feel so heavy and final
(06:05) – How “unintended outcome” creates space for learning
(08:06) – The difference between shame and curiosity
(11:14) – Why messy moments can lead to better decisions
